I have known Shirley all of my life she is my big cousin & even as kids she gave the best hugs ever, I have always been short & she has always been bigger than me in lots of ways, she had the biggest heart the largst laugh that you just had to join in with. As we grew older we led very busy lives but our Mum's always told us what the other was up to, in later years as our Mum's were ill we got back in touch again & yes she still gave the best hugs ever, I will miss you so much Shirley but at least you are not suffering anymore, love to David & family will hopefully see you when I'm next in the UK love Penny xx